Monday, October 29, 2012

What will I do with my pet if I have to move to a nursing home?

NEW YORK, NY - MAY 09:  Tomo McLoyd holds the ...
NEW YORK, NY - MAY 09: Tomo McLoyd holds the paw of her dog Rocky, 14, as veterinarian Wendy McCulloch euthanizes the pet at their apartment on May 9, 2012 in New York City. McLoyd had made the difficult decision to call McCulloch to perform the procedure after the pet could no longer walk. End of life issues have become increasingly important for pet owners, as advanced medical treatments and improved nutrition are extending pets lives well into old age. McCulloch runs Pet Requiem, a home veterinary service designed to provide geriatric care and in-home euthanasia for dying pets in the New York and New Jersey area. Many pet owners are choosing such in-home care to try and provide a humane and compassionate 'good death' for their beloved pets. (Image credit: Getty Images via @daylife)

Are you or an elderly parent preparing to move to a senior facility like an assisted living or nursing home?  It can be very unsettling to leave familiar surroundings and even family but the shock can be greater if you or your elderly parent must leave a trusted and beloved pet behind!  The term “pet” doesn’t even begin to describe how most of us feel about our pets.  To a true pet owner, they are a member of our family, a confidant, a loved one and leaving them can be devastating!

Don’t despair!  More and more senior facilities are accepting pets as they know that pets are more than a companion, they can be great therapy for seniors. Here are some of the benefits of  having a pet during the transition and after.

Pets help with transition:
  • Pets help maintain the link to former lifestyle and residence
  • Pets help the new resident feel more settled and secure
  • Pets provide a sense of independence
  • Pets can help adjust to new routines by becoming part of them
  • Pets can help make a new environment feel like home

 Pets provide ongoing benefits:
  • They can help with loneliness and provide needed companionship
  • Pets can encourage independence of their owner to continue caring for them
  • Pets can provide an opportunity for social interaction with others
  • Pets bring continuity to daily routines which may be new and different
  • Pets are often credited for reducing stress and even depression




There are numerous studies that support pets in senior facilities and for seniors in general.  The potential benefits have created a whole new field of therapy for seniors known as Pet Therapy.  For seniors without pets, specialists are often invited to visit senior facilities and bring specially trained animals to visit and interact with the residents.  And it’s not just dogs!  Pet therapy can include dogs, cats, rabbits and guinea pigs.  These animals, along with fish and birds, are also accepted as pets for residents in pet-friendly facilities.

But be prepared!  Many facilities have rules and guidelines you must meet before your pet is as welcome as you or your elderly parent.  Here are some of the common requirements and not all of these may be required by the facility you choose:

Common pet requirements:
  • The resident must be able to care for the pet on their own including walking, feeding and cleaning
  • There are size limits on pets as well as quantity limits
  • The pet must get along well with others
  • The pet must not become disruptive or disturbing to other residents
  • The resident must take financial responsibility for the pet’s food, medical care and general needs



Pets at Home
Pets at Home (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Don’t leave your beloved pet behind when it’s time to move!  The promise of taking a pet to a new environment can be very comforting and make transition a bit easier.  Be sure to do your research to make sure the facility you choose for yourself or your aging parent accepts pets.  To obtain a list 
of facilities in your area that meet your needs please consider www.seniorfacilityfinder.com .

If you would like to contribute your thoughts and ideas, please leave them in our comment section. We want to hear them. Helping people care for their loved ones is what we care about. 
We look forward to reading yours.

Bob Gregory is an advocate for Seniors and is one of the founders of  www.seniorfacilityfinder.com. At SeniorFacilityFinder.com, we are dedicated to helping families get the Elder Care help they need without having to provide their personal information! If you find you need an assisted living facility or other type of senior facility, please consider www.seniorfacilityfinder.com.

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Thursday, October 25, 2012

Will Adult Day Care be a good alternative to a Nursing Home and is it right for your situation?


By Bob Gregory

Are you the adult child or spouse of a physically or cognitively disabled adult family member?  Are you struggling with providing in-home care while trying to maintain your own household and job?  Don’t despair, there are alternatives to Nursing Homes or Assisted Living Facilities that will allow you to provide the care your loved one needs and you desire to give.

Consider an Adult Day Care center as an alternative!

What is an Adult Day Care Center?  An Adult Day Care Center is a planned program for frail, physically or cognitively disabled seniors who need a safe, supervised environment during the day.  They are intended for older adults who need help managing daily activities or are isolated.

Special Attributes of an Adult Day Care Center:

  • Open Monday through Friday during the day
    Full Service
    Full Service (Photo credit: acidpix)
  • Some provide transportation to and from the facility
  • Provide a safe and cheerful environment
  • Provide socializing and activities to stimulate mental health
  • Nutritious meals and special diet services
  • Nursing staff to administer medication
  • Low cost way of keeping a family member at home
Adult Day Care centers can be public or private, non-profit or for profit.  They are regulated by the state and each state has different regulations.  The National Adult Day Services Association (NADSA) does provide some overall guidelines, so there are commonalities in the regulations.  Check with your state for specific guidelines.

Brockton Adult Day Care Center
Brockton Adult Day Care Center (Photo credit: Timothy Valentine)
In addition to giving your loved-one a safe place to socialize and receive care during the day, it will also provide the caregiver a needed respite and reduce the need for nursing home care.  Care giving can be both financially and physically exhausting and a break from the caregiver’s role can do wonders for both of you.

If you need a break or your loved one is isolated while you are at work, please consider the advantages of an Adult Day Care center. If you have any other ideas or comments, please leave them in our comment section. We want to hear them. Helping people care for their loved ones is what we care about. 

We look forward to reading yours.

Bob Gregory is an advocate for Seniors and is one of the founders of  www.seniorfacilityfinder.com. At SeniorFacilityFinder.com, we are dedicated to helping families get the Elder Care help they need without having to provide their personal information! If you find you need an assisted living facility or other type of senior facility, please consider www.seniorfacilityfinder.com.

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Tuesday, October 9, 2012

When is a Skilled Nursing Home necessary and what type of care do they provide?


By Bob Gregory

Are you over 40 and your parents aren't doing as well as they use too? Are your parents disabled or handicapped or are having real problems coping with some unforeseen accident or issue? If you have an aging parent or loved one who meets one or more of the criteria you should consider placing him/her in a Skilled Nursing Home:

o   Has a medical condition that requires a Registered Nurse on a daily basis.
o   Cannot take care of personal needs, such as bathing, toileting, taking medication as prescribed, eating or ambulation.
o   Has emotional, physical or mental issues that prevent him/her from caring for themselves.
o   Must have supervision to keep from wandering away.
o   Can no longer live alone.
o   Requires temporary care or rehabilitation before returning home after a hospital stay.

NOVATO, CA - FEBRUARY 10:  Registered nurse Jo...
NOVATO, CA - FEBRUARY 10: Registered nurse JoAnn Brand (L) examines Sham Tavakoli at the Lifelong Medical Marin Adult Day Health Care Center on February 10, 2011 in Novato, California. LifeLong Medical Care in Novato is a state-licensed center that provides adult day health care and activities to nearly 60 Marin County seniors and would be forced to close if California Gov. Jerry Brown's proposed budget cuts were to be approved by the state legislature in order to make up for California's $28 billion deficit. The deep cuts to Medi-Cal would jeopardize up to 300 adult day care centers throughout California and displace nearly 37,000 people that depend on the service. (Image credit: Getty Images via @daylife)
A physician should perform a complete assessment to determine the mental and physical status of the patient. The assessment should include balance tests, memory tests and other tests deemed necessary to determine if the patient can take care of themselves (eating, dressing and standing from 
a sitting position without assistance) on a daily basis.

A Skilled Nursing Home provides personal care and rehabilitation services 24 hours a day. Resi
dents usually have a semi-private room and assist with their daily personal needs. Medications are dispensed
 by nurses and an individual’s overall health is monitored. There is usually a Physician on staff or an individual can visit their own Physician. Meals are usually served in a community dining room and activities are planned for the residents on a daily basis.

If your aging parent or loved one meets any of the criteria listed above or has been assessed by a physician and can no longer function without daily assistance a Skilled Nursing Home may be required.
We hope you find our checklist useful. If you have any other ideas or comments, please leave them in our comment section. We want to hear them. Helping people care for their loved ones is what we care about. 
We look forward to reading yours.

Bob Gregory is an advocate for Seniors and is one of the founders of  www.seniorfacilityfinder.com. At SeniorFacilityFinder.com, we are dedicated to helping families get the Elder Care help they need without having to provide their personal information! If you find you need an assisted living facility or other type of senior facility, please consider www.seniorfacilityfinder.com.

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