By Bob Gregory
In a previous blog post, Are you 50+ and ready to start living the good life?, I listed the 10 most common advantages of a 55+ community for your consideration. Since that post, I have had conversations with a lot of individuals who live in 55+ Communities and I have received some mixed reviews so I would like to do a little clarification and add some additional advice! Florida, my state, is filled with retirement options but not all are created equal nor do they come with the same price tag. I thought I would offer you some of the comments from individuals who seemed to be dissatisfied and then offer some ways to avoid finding yourself in the same situation.
Comments and Rebuttal:
- The community is full of us “old” folks and there are no young children running around playing or teens to keep us young and active. Alright, it’s a retirement community and there is a reason they are advertised as 55+ Communities. Yes, you will see the occasional grandchildren visiting but it’s not like a typical family community where you have every age. Consider whether you are ready for that type of an environment. Most people move to a 55+ Community to put that part of their lives behind them! Further, make sure the community you choose is active enough for your taste.
- The activities are really tailored to those who want to sit around and play card games or watch reruns of movies—not much excitement. I mentioned in my introduction that not all 55+ Communities are created equally and this is true. You will find communities with every type of activity you can imagine from golf to horseback riding to boating. You have to do your research and make sure the community you choose has the activities you like. Also, keep in mind this is a capitalistic market so you get what you pay for! If you visit enough of these communities, you will find some have parties almost every night of the week and offer more amenities than you can imagine. You may have to be willing to relocate to find the community that has everything on your wish list so do your research.
|Mature couple playing golf |
(Photo credit: SalFalko)
- It seems like everyone holds an “office” at our community and the
politics are unreal! Most planned communities have “resident boards”
that help manage certain aspects of the communities and this is also true
in 55+ Communities. The resident
boards generally oversee the maintenance of the residences to help protect
property values and planned activities such as dances, cookouts etc. For
most communities, these resident boards are helpful and provide a needed
service but there may be one or two who take their “office” very seriously! As in any community, avoid the politics
Dancing all the time (Photo credit: Julie70)
- As soon as I make good friends, they either move to a nursing home or pass on. We are all on a journey through life and as we age, our “stops” become more discernible. Yes, friends will become incapable of taking care of themselves and some will pass on but this is all part of life regardless of where you live. The difference is in a community where most residents are within five to ten years of your age, this type of separation will be more apparent.
- I can’t believe how much it costs to live in a 55+ Community! Earlier we discussed you get what you
pay for and nothing can be more true when choosing a community with top of
the line amenities. If you want to
live on a golf course, with beach access or even beach front homes, you
can bet you are going to pay a lot.
In addition, the more services that are provided, the higher the
cost. If you
Chairs On The Beach (Photo credit: kenteegardin)
Most people who gave me comments were very positive and reiterated most of the ten most common reasons to live in a 55+ Community that I had listed. The majority said they would not leave their community and there were very few items they would even change. I believe these people did their research and asked the right questions. Make sure you speak with as many residents as possible and not just the “tour committee” handpicked to answer your questions. Ask to attend a couple of social events and see the turnout compared to the resident count of the community—that will tell you a lot! Finally, if you find a place that caters to your particular desires and needs, you’ll find there is no hype!
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Bob Gregory is an advocate for Seniors and is one of the founders of www.seniorfacilityfinder.com. At SeniorFacilityFinder.com, we are dedicated to helping families get the Elder Care help they need without having to provide their personal information! If find you need an assisted living facility or other type of senior facility, please consider www.seniorfacilityfinder.com